Light & Darkness

Light & Darkness

We all feel that we are in a big force of change and transformation this year. There’s no deny there. So, we have two choices; either we resist what is or we take this as a great opportunity to reflect our life and zap what is no longer serving us and get ready for new things.

Many of us are facing what has been neglected or avoided to face and this world pandemic is forcing us to make some major changes.

When going to the next stage in life, we have to go through some uncomfortable phases. Because you have to get outside your comfort zone. That’s normal, right?

But I feel that this is something different. I feel that the Universe is asking us for our commitment to changes and transformation. It is requiring us to declare what we want and how we want to live our life and that we accept any challenges coming our way to get there.

In order to live in a new world, we need to raise our vibrations. We need to go back to who we really are, love and light.

In some way or another, including myself, I’ve heard many unusual events happening in peoples’ lives to force them to face their darkness. It’s as if the Universe really wanted to expedite the healing process so we can make it to the Universal ascension that is unfolding now.

Everyone has darkness because our soul purpose for incarnation is to grow. Without darkness, we cannot learn anything. Our darkness may be inner child wounds that are hurting or sad memories from childhood or young -adulthood.  We are now being asked to bring those darkness to light and heal. Heal your little-self who felt alone and who was desperate for love.

Forgive people who hurt us and understand that was also a form of love on a soul level. Send hem love, light, healing, and blessing.

We can know what the light is because we experienced darkness. Join me on his journey of healing and self-love.

The Mirror of Relationship

The Mirror of Relationship

You’ve probably heard about this concept and how it works. But, boy…., it’s hard to swallow… don’t you agree?

You see and deal with people that frustrate you and those “types” seem to be always around you and never go away! Does that sound familiar to you? Well, I am not an exception who is always trapped in those “people.”

I knew about this “mirror of relationship” and how people around you are just a reflection of who you are. But, I wasn’t convinced. I was like, “how could it be? I am the opposite end of the spectrum! I would never act like them or think like them!”  I was denial.

Then, one day, it hit me. Once again during my daily healing meditation. Yes, my 2020 big game. I’ve been focusing on “self-love” and suddenly, I realized that those “types” are the exactly the “types” that I hate to see myself to be. I can’t stand if I were like them.


I’ve had so may “have to” about myself. I have to be this and that. If I am not living up to my own expectations, I am not approving myself. I can’t accept myself.

Judgement is a projection of self-critics. When I am OK with no matter how I am and what I do or don’t do and love myself unconditionally, I believe I will love and accept everyone who is reflecting in my mirror. Because in the end, there’s only me in the world. Everyone is just a fraction of who I am, myself.

The More I Let Go, The More I will Have

So, my Year 2020 Big Game continues. Self-healing…that is….

How do I do it? The best way is through meditation. As many of you have been doing for the last three months, I am staying at home almost all day, which gives me plenty of time for self-reflection.

When I have been having super busy days (until not so long ago!), I used to have many excuses NOT to meditate, but now, no excuses! What a perfect timing that the Universe gave me this challenge!

I am focusing on all my “should” and “rules” or “generalization” that I held onto or blocked new possibilities and letting go of my fears of losing those familiar territories.

Then, one day during my daily meditation, it suddenly hit me. A big a-ha moment. “The more I let go, the more I will have.”  And here’s another big one. “The more I let go, the more I am becoming.”

That is who I really am. Love and light to serve people and evolve the world.

I am declaring to the Universe that I am ready for that change.